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DISMANTLING IDENTITIES THAT ARE INHERENTLY SELF-DESTRUCTIVE

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What Box Are You In?

OK so let’s talk process.  What is your role in keeping yourself in the box of other people’s expectations?  In what ways are you being exploited or continually exploitable?  If you're not sure, try making a list of things you do that don't help you or you don't enjoy and ask yourself why you do them. 
Be There for You
In what ways have you allowed others to impact your integrity?  How does your income and finances affect your values?  Try being in this distant, internal research place for an entire day or weekend so that you can see things in an enlightened way.  You owe yourself this personal time so let yourself be immersed in you.
How can you begin to take ownership of your life?  Where are your strengths and weaknesses in the way you view yourself and your personal image? 

Keep a personal Journal

Don't worry about the outcomes.  Allow the answers to come to you without passing judgment.  Certain facts will be immediately obvious, others discovered.
Find a cozy chair & comfort drink.

Remember

These are tough questions, but if you make the time to figure out the answers, the insight will give you clarity about who you are and how to proceed to become who you want to be.  Isn't that worth the trouble?

Take Care of Your Needs

Make a list of everything you see and prioritize potentially upsetting situations so you can act on them right away.  What conflicts are on the horizon that you should remove yourself from? If you need counseling, go for it without hesitation.
Give yourself some time for you to transition away from an emotionally driven viewpoint to a more analytical one by imagining you are alone in the world.  Who are you?  In what ways do you stand behind your integrity? 

Relax and enjoy this you time

Are games being played?  What real-life chess moves should you make?  Keep copious notes on these moments so that you remember what is important to you as you move through your personal, career and educational planning stages.

Act on your findings with logic

  
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